Work towards a 'Win Win' rather than a "Win Lose' situation.

 Work towards a 'Win Win' rather than a "Win Lose' situation.

 If you and your partner differ on a fundamental or even a minor issue, it rarely works to argue about it until somebody 'loses'. In a situation like this there are no clear victors. Rather try to work towards a compromise which suits both of you.

 For example, if one of you wants to go and see an action movie and the other wants to see a love story, don't fight until one of you 'gives in'. Try and find a solution together in which you both 'win'. This may be solved by agreeing that one can choose the movie this week, while the other chooses next week or it may be some other solution (like flipping a coin) that works for both of you. The same solution could be applied to more difficult issues, like differences in religion.

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